breakfast at midnight

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We've been staying in the same roof for almost six years now. we've been through ups and downs, we almost broke up but we tried to work it out. we had markee, when we were just 20, the reason why i have goals in my life.  I never dreamed about a perfect relationship, well in reality there's no such. We fight a lot of times before, now, when we have petty fights after an hour or so, we laugh about how we reacted. haha, For all those years, we've known each other since like forever, its impossible we don't know each other perfectly right? I feel very very comfortable when i am with him. no secrets, no dramas. Our key to a longer relationship is TRUST. Because if you don't know how to trust each other you'll end up fighting, crying or whatever that comes up to your mind. Breaking someone's trust is like crumpling up a perfect piece of paper. You can smooth it over but its never gonna be the same again. It happened to us once, i was always overreacting at things, being paranoid, even though he's not doing something. It took me a year to give him a try to trust again. which in the end he gave me reasons why i can give him a chance. Another one is COMMUNICATION. Contempt, the opposite of respect, is often expressed via negative judgment, criticism, or sarcasm regarding the worth of an individual. you know, opposite attracts when one is rough you in the other hand have to be soft. :) don't just nag nag and nag and its pretty much easier if you and your partner talk things out. do not be angry and stay mad at the same time. you'll end up having long cold shoulders if you do that. Communicate, even if its uncomfortable or uneasy. One of the best ways to heal is simply getting everything out.

Staying and keeping your relationship stronger is really hard especially if your relationship had too much struggles. in the end of the day, you should always see the brighter side. ask yourself. why am i still with him? my answer is its called LOVE. the closest thing we have to magic! 

i am not writing these because we have a perfect relationship but because I experienced so many trials and learned some lessons. 


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